prUuf
Remembering
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Post by prUuf on Oct 8, 2006 15:07:18 GMT -5
change your attitude.
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Post by muirrin on Oct 8, 2006 18:59:26 GMT -5
It's not as simple as that, for me... and I daresay for Sáille as well. It's not as if I can just click my fingers and, voila! I'm all better. I know for sure that my issues have sprung from various incidents throughout this life, and quite possibly from previous ones as well, therefore I need to try to pinpoint these moments and try to work through them. It's a slow and painful process, and most of the time I don't think I'll be aware of myself changing, but the intent and the need are both there, which is at this early stage exactly what I need to start this off.
Imho, attitude problems require a change of attitude. Other issues require other methods of treatment. I know that it's deeper than an attitude problem for us, therefore we need to find something that probes deep enough to work.
As for my fears? Failure is a biggie. A VERY big biggie... and it reaches into every aspect of my life. I conquer this, and I improve in many ways, although the healing process won't be completed by any stretch of the imagination.
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Post by Sáille on Oct 9, 2006 14:36:40 GMT -5
I agree with Muirrin. For me it is not a change of attitude alone. There are so many factors that come into play where fear is concerned. My twin knows about my fear and helps me confront it, but it's a slow and painful process. It's not just about snapping your fingers and changing everything straight away. It takes time.
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Post by Kivawolfspeaker on Oct 9, 2006 17:22:08 GMT -5
I agree with both Alth and Murrin. I also must learn the hard way and besides I've found I learn better the hard way.
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Post by muirrin on Oct 9, 2006 20:09:31 GMT -5
Yeah, same. When things are too easy it can be tempting to slip back into old habits... whereas when one learns lessons and there IS grief, there IS frustration, there IS pain... then, the lesson can be akin to the "light at the end of the tunnel" - it's the end of all that, and the beginning of something new and positive. Why would anyone want to slip back into something that would make them go through all that again?
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Post by ladyofthelight on Nov 7, 2006 15:33:46 GMT -5
Ok, I'm a bit confused here. I'm reading a book of Deepak Chopra and I think it's called "the path to love" or something like that. and in this book he says that things like soulmates or twinsouls don't exist, that nobody is waiting out there. That love only has to do with yourself, and that it doesn't matter which partner you choose. I really don't know what to believe anymore, perhaps it doesn't matter in the end, but spirituality can be so tiresome somethimes. There are so many different opinions and versions and it's so confusing. So, should I believe in twinsouls or not? I don't know anymore. Perhaps it isn't that important. I don't know.
Xxx
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Post by Sáille on Nov 8, 2006 7:14:39 GMT -5
Of course no one is "waiting" for you, but that doesn't mean that there's no such thing as a twinflame. I wasn't waiting for my twinflame either in the past and I doubt that he waited for his twinflame... waiting symbolises unwillingness to move... but through moving and simply welcoming everyone you meet into your life with open arms you might meet that one special soul.
Some people choose their soulmates as partners because often their twinflame does not appear in their lives. That doesn't make the soulmate-relationship less pure, but it is different from a twinflame-relationship all the same. You choose the partner who is right for you at this point in time... be it a twinflame or a soulmate. You can 'make' people into being some kind of soulmate for you by simply being around them and learning from them. In fact, everyone we meet is a soulmate of ours.
Yet, soulfamilies and twinflames go deeper than the ordinary relationships you have with people. A soulfamily consists of the people you've lived with throughout all of your lives... the people you have met time and time again... a brother, a sister, a cousin, a father, a mother... they can be anything to you. A twinflame is best described as your other half. Without your twinflame you can be complete, but with your twinflame you are far more than complete.
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Post by radaeron on Nov 8, 2006 16:42:44 GMT -5
*Beware. Another mini-whine of Rad*
I hope they're waiting for me >_< I'm waiting for them!
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Post by radaeron on Nov 9, 2006 4:38:55 GMT -5
Well its better to stop myself before I start ^_^; I can be quite a talker if I get into it.. lol
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Post by muirrin on Nov 9, 2006 19:44:25 GMT -5
Ah Rad... if you need to whine I'll put up with ya gods know I'm doing enough whining myself!!
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Post by Kivawolfspeaker on Nov 9, 2006 22:33:22 GMT -5
Aww Rad,
You know we'll all put up with your whinning. We've all done enough ourselves.
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Post by muirrin on Nov 12, 2006 2:04:56 GMT -5
You didn't whine though, Arya!
*pouts*
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