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Post by Caerai on Jul 24, 2005 4:09:01 GMT -5
For around two years...I found my soul mate...her name's caliena...I've found her spiritually...and interact with her on the astral plane...well more apart of it that overlaps with this plane...we have children that were born this life...And i'm looking for a way to contact her...I'm dying inside...please...help me...please...
I'm sorry if this doesn't belong here...I didn't want to post it i've just tried everywhere else...Don't worry, you can feel free to abuse me and call me insane like everyone else, i'm so damaged...
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Post by Félix on Jul 24, 2005 9:01:14 GMT -5
Hey Caerai, correct me, but if I understand well... when you met her, it's in another dimension as well as the children, is it ? that is interesting ;-) So you keep seing her but never in your human body.... I don't know, I just feel you should not hurt yourself with that. Just a little advise, that i learned from the past, its whenever you want something reallly badly.... you are not going to have it. ( like that : I'm dying inside...please...help me...please...) No offence, its only advice here. I have done the same, no worries.
But, once you remove the "attachment" and keep faith in the futur, amazing things can happens. As they says: Help yourself and Heaven will help you = Aide toi et le ciel t'aidera (am translating from french hope it making sense) Oki good luck, hope this message is a bit helpfull somehow ;-)
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Post by ne ws oci e ty on Jul 24, 2005 12:02:20 GMT -5
can you not just ask her in the astral plane where to find her?
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Post by thecrystalmaiden on Jul 24, 2005 13:57:27 GMT -5
Well, I don't know if he's my exact soul mate, but I purposefully found someone from a past life here on Earth.
He's my current boyfriend... I prayed for five/six years straight after I moved to California and all my friends pretty much deserted me. I prayed for someone to come along who'd be my best friend and help me, who'd love me and give me the support I needed. He isn't perfect, he comes in human form, but finally I met him and the connection between us in undeniable.
20 weeks before I met him, I read in a zodiac chart at school "You'll meet someone very special around the second semester of this school year." Then around second semester, I had a dream that led me to meet him. The moment I was in his physical presence, I knew his signature - everything about him was so familiar and comfortable, it was as though we'd known each other for years past. I KNOW that we were meant to meet and that my prayers are what brought him to me - I manifested it.
So the best advice I can give, no matter how frustrating, is to pray. Every night before you go to bed, pray your heart out and ask to meet her. KNOW that you will meet her and that one day she'll come to you. Know that if she lives in this dimension, she will.
However, also know that she may be living a life in a completely seperate dimension where you'll never be able to physically reach her, and maybe in this life part of your challenges is to live without her by your side. Just know this - God is listening, and if you ask, he will give to you without holding back; the challenge is interpretting what you receive. If in your heart you have faith and know that you will find her one day, then believe me, you will.
Best of luck, wish I could be of more help!
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Post by Cae on Jul 24, 2005 17:26:21 GMT -5
Sorry, was suffering a bout of depresson...let me explain the situation further...
Caliena, and our children exist on the astral plane, she has a physical form here, the problem is finding it...Sometimes I get extremely lonely and depressed about not having physical contact with her (Not being able to hold her, tell her i love her physically) even though it's not the most important thing in the world. Because she knows I love her.
I can astral project yes...and when i'm there with her everything seems right...It's just when i'm not and lose my 'senses' as it were and can't feel her there I go to pieces...
As for praying, it's not something I do, I'm sure any omnisentient being has more important things to do than worry about me, and my relationship status.
After looking for wo years, a friend...who ironically bears the same name os Caliena, told me to trust to fate...so I did, i'm not looking persay at the moment, i'm simply leaving it up to fate, though then I start fretting, I'm just one giant fretting machiene...Untop of all this i have my other worrys and quams. I'll be find though, sorry to desturb you all ^^ When i'm depressed it's almost like an alter ego ;p.
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Post by thecrystalmaiden on Jul 26, 2005 1:07:54 GMT -5
"Praying is not something I do." (Why do you ask for advice and then brush it off?)
There is something here you don't quite understand. More than God listens when you pray, angels listen and your spirit guides listen, and your higher self listens, and the consciousness of this Earth and the energies that tie together the universe listen, and it is Your Own Mind that manifests that prayer being answered. By the very act of praying, we influence our own futures through sheer strength of will. If some omniscient being doesn't care enough to send you your soul mate, then why would that being bother to send me mine? Did you know that it's a scientifically proven fact that people praying for peace in large numbers decreases crime rates? Yep, proven.
Love is the sum of existence, it is the essence of God - a very large part of unconditional love is unconditional generosity. Ask, and you shall receive.
Have you ever considered that the reason why you're having so much trouble meeting her is BECAUSE you haven't asked yet? Every prayer I've ever made has been answered - how can you travel on the astral plane and then choose NOT to pray to meet her?
I don't want to sound mean at all, I hope I didn't, it just seems like you're focusing too much on your depression and not enough on an answer. If you don't want to pray to meet her, maybe pray for guidance to better direct your thoughts towards a conclusion?
Best of luck finding her!
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Post by Laurel Chaisson on Jul 26, 2005 7:47:44 GMT -5
God is beyond time, there's nothing s/he loves more than to make each of us - individually and as a race - happy and aware of his/her love for us! God IS love and love can't be complete without being given away... that's why we were created. ^___^ So of course God wants to listen to whatever you have to say... you don't even have to know how to say it - God knows what you mean. "Ask and ye shall recieve...", remember? If you ever want anything, just ask and believe you have already recieved your answer... prayer is a way to enhance the power of belief, and it's pretty srong on it's own. ^__^
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Post by Shaelyn on Aug 7, 2005 10:50:40 GMT -5
I'm sure any omnisentient being has more important things to do than worry about me, and my relationship status. If that God gave you a way to find her and love her astrally, and miss her, then why would he be too good to do anything else for you? I believe you underestimate God. God designed this. S/he planned you to find her. S/he planned a path for the two of you to meet...but the longer you hold out on him/her, the longer it'll take for the two of you TO meet. Think of it this way too. God loves you. S/he really does....think of how much a mother loves her child. It is so great, that if the child is to be put up for adoption, then the moment the child is born, it's whisked away--the mother cannot even see the child. As soon as the mother and child meet, the bond is so great, that the mother will refuse to have the child raised by anyone else...that or experience great sorrow in giving the child up. Now think about God for a minute here. God didn't just give you a path to be born. God created you, every aspect of you, every part of who you are. God created your soul, your body, everything...and breathed life into you. Now imagine how much God loves you. That being said...God WANTS you to be happy. All you have to do is ask for it...S/he'll give you a path. Love is one of the strongest forces in the universe. God doesn't want to keep you from that...but s/he may have something for you to learn before s/he can. --- Now the other half of the equation. Think about the Buddha for a minute here. The Buddha's been on every side of the equation...first he was a prince...but that didn't get him what he wanted. Then he tried being poor to reach enlightenment...and that didn't help him either. At last, he tried just being happy and healthy...and behold, enlightenment came to him at last! ~Disclaimer: I have not studied Buddhism long, someone please correct me if I have that story wrong.~ But at any rate, what I'm getting at...is to achieve what you want, just be happy with yourself now. Don't go out looking for her, let the path for you two to meet just...happen. And enjoy yourself now. When you can be happy without your soulmate after you found her...really says something about you. This moment that you're in only happens once. You can remember it as often as you'd like...but how you will remember it is affected by how you will live in it, how you perceived it at the time....so enjoy it! Soulmates don't exist to bring you down when you're not with them. They exist to pick you up when you are together. However, you're supposed to be able to stand alone with out them...they are an accent to your life, the icing on the cake if you will...they aren't the End-All Be-All. Society has led us to believe otherwise...think about all the movies you've seen where you have someone grovelling in the dirt, in tears because they can't be with "The One." That's not what it's about! It's about an added little joy to your life...and after you have children (if you do), an added several joys to your life. But I have to repeat that statement for emphasis: SOULMATES/LOVERS/BOYFRIENDS/GIRLFRIENDS DO NOT EXIST TO BRING YOU DOWN WHEN YOU ARE NOT WITH THEM. Your soulmate only wants you to be happy. God only wants you to be happy. Those close to you only want you to be happy. We here at this forum only want you to be happy. If you achieve that happiness...I really believe you will find her, or she will find you. P.S. You're definately not insane. You're reacting to the world as you have been taught to react to the world...we often mimick what we see...and what we see is people in extreme pain when we are not with our soulmate...so we put ourselves in that place. You have the strength to get out of that place and be happy. It's perfectly explainable...and many of us have done it before...Hell, I've done it before with two ex's...and they weren't even soulmates. You have the power within yourself to be happy...to heal the wounds.
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Post by ne ws oci e ty on Aug 7, 2005 16:15:51 GMT -5
^very good post. I'm gonna give you some byte-karma for that one.
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Post by Shaelyn on Aug 8, 2005 13:02:10 GMT -5
wow, thanks ~shrug~ this is what I do...I just like to help people. BTW...there's a forum I sometimes go to for stuff like this...I'm an advisor there...it's slowed down quite a bit since I first started going, though, but you can still get help, if we can't help you: A Listening Ear
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